Blank college application on a desktop. Artwork created by the photographer.
Applying to college can feel like trying to win a game without knowing all the rules. Looking back, there are several things I wish someone had told me before I dove into the world of college applications.
- It’s More Than Just Grades
I used to think GPA and test scores were everything. While they matter, colleges also care about who you are beyond academics. Essays, recommendation letters, and extracurriculars tell your story. I wish I had invested more time in exploring my interests and volunteering, not just boosting my resume, to find out what I truly cared about. - Start Early—Seriously
Deadlines creep up faster than you’d think. I underestimated how long it would take to write essays, gather recommendations, and fill out applications. If I could go back, I’d create a timeline and start writing drafts in the summer before senior year. - The “Perfect School” Doesn’t Exist
I stressed way too much about getting into my dream school. In reality, there are many colleges where I could thrive. Fit is more important than prestige. Campus culture, support systems, and academic programs matter more than rankings. - Rejection Isn’t Personal
Getting turned down feels awful, but it’s not always a reflection of your worth. Colleges have limited spots and are looking to build a diverse class. One “no” doesn’t define your potential. - Ask for Help
Whether it’s a teacher reviewing your essay or a counselor explaining financial aid, don’t hesitate to reach out. I wish I had leaned more on others instead of trying to do it alone.
The college application process is stressful, but it’s also a time to reflect on who you are and where you want to go. If you’re applying soon, take a deep breath, you’ve got this. And trust that no matter where you end up, it’s just the beginning.
